Expressing love around the world: Interesting facts and how to say "I love you" in different languages

Sam Colley
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Love is a universal language that transcends borders, cultures and languages. For those learning another language, understanding how to express love in various tongues can be both fascinating and useful. Whether you're planning to travel, connect with friends from different backgrounds, or simply expand your linguistic repertoire, knowing how to say "I love you" in different languages as well as the cultural context, can be a beautiful way to show appreciation and affection. Let's take a look at some of the many ways to express this timeless sentiment and some interesting facts.

1. Cultural nuances:

In many cultures, the way you express love can carry different weights and meanings. For example, in Japanese, "ۤƤ" (aishiteru) is a very strong expression of love, often reserved for serious relationships, whereas "ä" (daisuki) is more commonly used among friends and family.
However, French, often called the language of love, uses "je t'aime" to express love as a romantic phrase that can be used for both partners and close family members.

2. Gender differences:

Some languages have gender-specific ways of saying "I love you." For instance, in Arabic, "????" (a?ibbuka) is used when a woman says "I love you" to a man, and "????" (a?ibbuki) is used when a man says it to a woman. Similarly, in Hindi, men say "??? ????? ????? ???? ???" (main tumse pyaar karta hoon) and women say "??? ????? ????? ???? ???" (main tumse pyaar karti hoon).

3. Formal vs. informal:

Some languages have formal and informal ways of expressing love. In Spanish, "te amo" is more formal and used for romantic love, while "te quiero" is more casual and can be used for friends and family.
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4. Regional variations:

Even within the same language, regional variations can exist. For example, in Portuguese, "eu te amo" is used in both European and Brazilian Portuguese, but the accent and pronunciation can differ slightly.

5. Non-verbal expressions:

In some cultures, non-verbal expressions of love are equally important. For example, in many Asian cultures, actions often speak louder than words. Acts of service, giving gifts, or spending quality time can be more significant than verbal declarations of love.

6. Historical context:

The way "I love you" is expressed can be influenced by historical and social contexts. In some cultures, public displays of affection and verbal expressions of love were traditionally considered private matters and this has influenced how openly people express their feelings.

Traditionally, Japanese culture places a high value on modesty and restraint. Public displays of affection are often considered inappropriate, and verbal expressions of love can be rare and subtle. The concept of "amae" (the expectation to be loved and cared for) plays a significant role in relationships, where love is shown through dependency and mutual support rather than overt declarations.

7. Language structure:

The structure of a language can influence how love is expressed. For example, in German, "ich liebe dich" places the verb "love" (liebe) in the middle, emphasizing the feeling. In Chinese, "Ұ" (w i n) follows the subject-verb-object structure, making it straightforward and clear.

8. Linguistic roots:

The words used to express love can have fascinating linguistic roots. For example, the English word "love" comes from the Old English "lufu," which is related to the Old High German "luba" and the Gothic "lub."

9. Songs and literature:

Many famous songs and pieces of literature feature the phrase "I love you" in various languages.

The song, "Ti Amo" by Umberto Tozzi, is a timeless Italian love anthem, expressing deep affection and passion, while in Gabriel Garca Mrquez's novel "Love in the Time of Cholera," the Spanish phrase "Te quiero" is used to convey deep, enduring love between the characters.

Learning these phrases can give you a deeper appreciation for international music, poetry, and prose.

10. Language learning benefits:

Learning to say "I love you" in different languages can enhance your overall language skills. It helps you understand pronunciation, grammar and cultural context, making you a more well-rounded language learner.

Using a different language to say "I love you" can also be a romantic gesture. It shows effort, thoughtfulness and a willingness to embrace your partner's culture or interests.

11. Global connectivity:

Knowing how to express love in different languages can help you connect with people from around the world. It fosters empathy, understanding and appreciation for diverse cultures and traditions.

Writers and artists often incorporate multiple languages into their works to reflect multicultural themes and connect with a broader audience. For example, the poet Pablo Neruda, who wrote in Spanish, has his works translated into many languages, allowing readers worldwide to experience the depth of his love poems. Reading "Te amo" in Neruda's poetry can evoke a universal feeling of love, transcending linguistic barriers.

12. Number of words for love:

The number of words in any language to express love can vary greatly. Sanskrit has 96 words for love, ancient Persian has 80, Greek 3 and English only 1.

Conclusion

Learning to say "I love you" in different languages is more than just memorizing phrases C its a wonderful way to connect with people from diverse cultures and backgrounds. It enriches your language skills and opens up new avenues for expressing your feelings. These interesting facts highlight the richness and diversity of expressing love globally, making your language learning journey even more rewarding. So, go ahead and share the love, no matter where you are in the world.

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    By Joanna Wiseman

    The first class with a new group of young learners can be a nerve-wracking experience for teachers old and new. Many of us spend the night before thinking about how to make a positive start to the year, with a mixture of nerves, excitement, and a desire to get started. However, sometimes things dont always go as expected, and it is important to set a few ground rules in those early lessons to ensure a positive classroom experience for all, throughout the academic year.

    Lets look at a few common problems that can come up, and how best to deal with them at the start of the school year.

    1. Students are not ready to start the class

    How the first few minutes of the class are spent can greatly influence how the lesson goes. Students can be slow to get out their equipment and this can cause a lot of time wasting. To discourage this, start lessons with a timed challenge.

    1. Tell students what you want them to do when they come into class, e.g. sit down, take out their books and pencil cases, sit quietly ready for the lesson to start.
    2. Time how long it takes for everyone to do this and make a note. Each day do the same.
    3. Challenge students to do this faster every day. You could provide a goal and offer a prize at the end of the trimester if they reach it, e.g. be ready in less than a minute every day.

    2. Students speak their first language (L1) in class

    One of primary teachers' most common classroom management issues is getting them to speak English. However, young learners may need to speak their mother tongue occasionally, and a complete ban on L1 is often not the best solution. But how can we encourage students to use English wherever possible?

    Tell students they have to ask permission to speak in L1, if they really need to.

    • 3 word rule tell students that they can use a maximum of three words in L1 if they dont know them in English.
    • Write ENGLISH on the board in large letters. Each time someone speaks in L1, erase a letter. Tell students each letter represents time (e.g. 1 minute) to play a game or do another fun activity at the end of the lesson. If the whole word remains they can choose a game.

    3. Students dont get on with each other

    It is only natural that students will want to sit with their friends, but it is important that students learn to work with different people. Most students will react reasonably if asked to work with someone new, but occasionally conflicts can arise. To help avoid uncomfortable situations, do team building activities, such as those below, at the beginning of the school year, and do them again whenever you feel that they would be beneficial:

    • Give students an icebreaker activity such as 'find a friend bingo' to help students find out more about each other.
    • Help students learn more about each other by finding out what they have in common.
    • Balloon race. Have two or more teams with an equal number of students stand in lines. Give each team a balloon to pass to the next student without using their hands. The first team to pass the balloon to the end of the line wins.
    • Team letter/word building. Call out a letter of the alphabet and have pairs of students form it with their bodies, lying on the floor. When students can do this easily, call out short words, e.g. cat, and have the pairs join up (e.g. three pairs = group of six) and form the letters to make the word.

    4. Students dont know what to do

    When the instructions are given in English, there will inevitably be a few students who dont understand what they have to do. It is essential to give clear, concise instructions and to model the activity before you ask students to start. To check students know what to do and clarify any problems:

    • Have one or more students demonstrate using an example.
    • Have one student explain the task in L1.
    • Monitor the task closely in the first few minutes and check individual students are on the right track.

    5. A student refuses to participate/do the task

    This is a frequent problem that can have many different causes. In the first few lessons, this may simply be shyness, but it is important to identify the cause early to devise an effective strategy. A few other causes might include:

    • Lack of language required to respond or do the task. Provide differentiation tasks or scaffolding to help students with a lower level complete the task or have them respond in a non-oral way.
    • Low self-confidence in their ability to speak English. Again, differentiation and scaffolding can help here. Have students work in small groups or pairs first, before being asked to speak in front of the whole class.
    • Lack of interest or engagement in the topic. If students arent interested, they wont have anything to say. Adapt the topic or task, or just move on.
    • External issues e.g. a bad day, a fight with a friend, physical problems (tiredness/hunger/thirst). Talk to the student privately to find out if they are experiencing any problems. Allow them to 'pass' on a task if necessary, and give them something less challenging to do.

    It is important not to force students to do something they dont want to do, as this will cause a negative atmosphere and can affect the whole class. Ultimately, if a student skips one or two tasks, it wont affect their achievement in the long run.

    6. Students ask for repeated restroom/water breaks

    It only takes one student to ask to go to the restroom before the whole class suddenly needs to go! This can cause disruption and stops the flow of the lesson. To avoid this, make sure you have rules in place concerning restroom breaks:

    • Make sure students know to go to the restroom before the lesson.
    • Have students bring in their own water bottles. You can provide a space for them to keep their bottles (label them with student names) in the classroom and have students fill them daily at the drinking fountain or faucet.
    • Find out if anyone has any special requirements that may require going to the restroom.
    • Provide 'brain breaks' at strategic points in the lesson when you see students becoming restless.

    7. Students dont have the required materials

    • Provide parents with a list of materials students will need on the first day.
    • If special materials are required in a lesson, give students a note to take home or post a message on the school platform several days before.
    • Dont blame the student - whether they have a good reason or not for turning up to class empty-handed, making a child feel guilty will not help.
    • Write a note for parents explaining why bringing materials to class is important.

    8. Students are not listening/talking

    Getting their attention can be challenging if you have a boisterous class. Set up a signal you will use when you want them to pay attention to you. When they hear or see the signal, students should stop what they are doing and look at you. Some common signals are:

    • Raising your hand?- When students see you raise your hand, they should raise their hands and stop talking. Wait until everyone is sitting in silence with their hands raised. This works well with older children and teenagers.
    • Call and response attention-getters - These are short phrases that prompt students to respond in a certain way, for example: Teacher: "1 2 3, eyes on me!"?Students: "1 2 3, eyes on you!". Introduce a new attention-getter every few weeks to keep it fun. You can even have your students think up their own phrases to use.
    • Countdowns -?Tell students what you want them to do and count backwards from ten to zero, e.g. "When I get to zero, I need you all to be quiet and look at me. 10, 9, 8 "
    • Keep your voice low and speak calmly -?This will encourage students to stop talking and bring down excitement levels.
    • A short song or clapping rhythm -?With younger children, it is effective to use music or songs for transitions between lesson stages so they know what to do at each stage. For primary-aged children, clap out a rhythm and have them repeat it. Start with a simple rhythm, then gradually make it longer, faster, or more complex.